Showing posts with label Delila Boice and Adelbert Asay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Delila Boice and Adelbert Asay. Show all posts

Monday, December 13, 2010

The Christmas List - 1926

Adelbert Asay
our favorite Santa
The first Adelbert Asay family reunion was held August 30, 1957 at the old house in Lovell.  At this time the family was organized with officers and goals. One of the high-lights of the evening was a box of momentos found under the floor during recent renovating of the old family home.  Articles were held up for the owners to claim .... old shoes, hammer etc.  The prize item was Grandma's Christmas shopping list for December 10, 1926:

Christmas - - 1926
Albert - necktie 75 cents
Bert - necktie 75 cents, shirt $1.50
Percy - overalls, necktie, long sox
Boice - overalls, necktie, long sox
Merril - shirt, overalls, necktie
Calvin - baby rattle and shoes
Hyrum - garters, necktie
Hyrum Jr. - marbles, ball, and shirt
Wayne - material for rompers and a ball
Papa - shirt, necktie, and Sandy Andy
Gladys - cloth for aprons and stockings
Mae - shoes and stockings, one suit of underwear and garters
Helen - shoes, stockings, doll
Mama - cloth for aprons
(Zela has to help be Santa)
Sandy Andy toys variety of tin lithograph...
would love to know which one Grandma would buy for "Papa"
Merry Christmas!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

The Most Memorable Christmas

Adelbert Asay aka Santa
One hot summer day as we sat in Grandma's living room sipping lemonade, a grandson, Matt asked, "Grandma, what was the best Christmas you ever had?"  Grandmother told him this story:

Many years ago, though it seems like yesterday, our means were quite limited.  We knew Christmas was coming.  We had six little children at that time, who we loved very much, and we wanted to have such a nice Christmas for them. 

So Grandpa hooked up the team and went to the mountain for a load of wood.  He brought it down and took it to Brother M.D. Harris, who said, "Delbert take that load of wood over to the school, and I'll give you $8.00 for it."

Grandpa took the wood to the school and received a check for $8.00.  He then came home, and he said to me, "Mama, this will have to be the Christmas.  It is all I've got and all I can get.  I'm going to give the check to you, and you do the best you can with it."

I went into the bedroom and put on a nice dress and combed my hair.  Then I knelt down and told the Lord our circumstances and the money I had.  I asked Him to direct me that day - where I should go and do the best I could.

I felt good about it and went up to Main Street and cashed the check.  Then I went up to Bishop Cutler's, and I paid 80cents tithing on that check. I then went back to town and every store I went in, I got something we needed.

When I got home and the parcels were opened I had: a chicken, some sugar, some eggs, flour, candy, and a tiny gift for each child - and a little suit for Ab.

Papa brought us home a Christmas tree which we decorated with popcorn and cranberries.

We knew the Lord had guided my footsteps to bargains all over town, and I even got a little something for Papa and I.  This was the most outstanding Christmas we had in those early years.

Aunt Gladys, who had joined us in Grandma's living room said, "This was our best Christmas ever, and it was a real testimony to us children of the value of tithing and praying to Heavenly Father in time of need."

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

"Lovell is a Pretty Little Town"

Wyoming Meadowlark
Wyoming State Bird

When ever I hear the melodic trill of the Meadowlark, it touches me to my very soul.   I am immediately transported to a quieter, more peaceful time and place, and my heart rejoices hearing the sound once again. I remember Grandmother Asay and my mother Delilah Mae repeat the trill of the Meadowlark song, and putting it to the words, "Lovell is a Pretty Little Town,"  It always brought a smile to their faces and a twinkle in their eye to hear the Meadowlark song, and delighted in telling of Grandpas'  love for this "pretty little town".  The sweet memory brings a smile to me.  Story retold for us by Joye Marostica:

My sister and I occasionally had the opportunity of sleeping over at our grandparent's home. This always delighted us for it was like being in a different land though it was just across town.

To kneel around the big bed with our younger aunts and uncles and grandparents for prayer before retiring made everything seem so right with the world.

In the morning I would often rise early and find Grandma working in the garden. She always welcomed me and we would pull weeds together. I remember her telling me to listen carefully to the Meadowlarks as their song could be heard every morning, and they had a special message to give me. It was, "Lovell is a pretty little town" -- and as I listened of course that was exactly what they were singing!

The town my grandparents chose to raise their family in truly was a pretty little town. the population then as now, many years later, stays at about 2,500. The trees lining Main Street reached over to touch each other. The beautiful blue Pryor Mountains loomed up to the north and to the east rose the mighty Big Horns. People didn't lock their doors and drugs were unheard of. Peaceful is the most descriptive work for the town of Lovell in those days.

It is called the "Rose Town" because Dr. Horsley taught everyone how to plant and care for roses. Not only are roses around all the homes but also at both entrances to the town, where he planted beautiful rose gardens. Dr. Horsley was given the honor of naming the "Peace Rose" by the National Rose Society.

                       Peace Rose

He was loved by everyone and especially by me because he always remembered my name and the date he delivered me. This amazing man knew these facts for all of the many babies he brought into the world.

My Grandparents were happy to have him for their family doctor and he knew the Asay children well. I'm sure he never for got the time Helen, their youngest girl, slid down the beet pulp silo and had to have literally hundreds of slivers removed.

Sugar beets were and still are the main industry of the town. I will always remember riding to my first Junior Prom in my boy friend's beet pulp truck. The stench is indescribable... it never leaves one's memory!

Entertainment in Lovell for teenagers appears to be almost the same now as when Grandma was being courted by Grandpa. Instead of dragging Main Street in a horse and buggy, however, we now see Hondas, Buicks, Datsuns, and a few motorcycles. Dancing in Grandma's day was on the river bridge; now it has been moved to the open air street dances and the school gymnasium. Picnics by the river have been transferred to the beautiful new city park that even has a swimming pool. We, as well as our grandparents, swam in the canals that are used to irrigate a region that would be desert without them. (Insert by Editor: See the history of the Colonization of the Big Horn Basin by clicking on William Heber Robb and Clara Minnie Simmons)

On the surface there seem to be few big changes. We know, as did Grandmother even in her day, that satanic influences can always be found lurking in the shadows of small towns as throughout the world.

I don't know if Grandma would agree, but I feel the chances of her children growing up without the danger of evil were much better than ours. At least she didn't have to contend with the drug scene, pornography, R rated movies, and the new morality.

Yes, Grandmother knew about the real world, but she also knew what the Meadowlark was saying, and I will be eternally grateful to her for helping me see the pretty things in life.

Little Town
I like to live in a little town,
Where the trees meet across the street.
Where you wave your hand and say "Hello"
To everyone you meet.
I like to stand for a moment
Outside the grocery store
And listen to the friendly gossip
of the folks that live next door.
For life is interwoven
With the friends we learn to know,
And we hear their joys and sorrows
As we daily come and go.
So I like to live in a little town,
I care no more to roam,
For every house in a little town
Is more than a house, its home.
...........................anonymous

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Lovell, Wyoming  Rose Town
Thank you Dr. William Watts Horsley

Click below to listen to the Meadowlark Song

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Story of the Red Rose



The Red Rose has always been significant in the Asay family, especially for Grandmother Asay.  I always thought Grandpa gave the rose to the pretty girl driving the wagon. Joy Marostica re-tells the story:

Over the years I had always been aware that the red rose held a special meaning for my Grandparents, but it wasn’t until recently that I understood why.

In June of 1977 as we drove with Grandmother through the desolate Wyoming prairies on our way to Casper, we asked her to tape some of the events of her life. We were delighted to find her telling us of her romance with Grandfather.

In the early 1900’s Grandpa’s family was helping the church in the development of the Big Horn Basin and they had settled in Lovell. It was necessary on one occasion for Adelbert to go to Montana in search of a missing young boy. After traveling many miles he lay down for a nap by the Yellowstone River. Upon awakening he discovered a beautiful red rose lying on the bank. He stuck it in his shirt, jumped on his horse, and continued his journey. He could see a wagon in the distance and as he came closer he observed a young lady driving it.

This 17 year old girl was Delila Boice on her way to the Big Horn Basin with her family. She saw the lone rider with a flash of red on his shirt in the distance. She hoped he would be of some help for directions. As Adelbert rode closer she noticed he was very handsome; she hoped her father would speak kindly to him, and she felt anyone who would wear a red rose on a hot, dusty ride must be sensitive, nice, and wonderful!

Adelbert did give them directions and encouraged them to settle in Lovell, as the soil was fertile, the water clear, and it was so beautiful there.

Brother Boice took his advice and the following Sunday at church the courtship began - August 17, 1903.

In those days for entertainment the young people in Lovell danced on the Shoshone River Bridge. The dance hall was for the “rowdy bunch.” Reuben Allpin and Orin Elmer played the harmonicas and someone called the quadrilles. When a wagon wanted to cross, the dancers scooted to the sides. Delila’s and Delbert’s favorite dance tune was “In the Good Old Summer Time.”

On October 5, 1903 Delila and Adelbert were married in the tent home of her parents. They continued to enjoy dancing, and as their children were born they took them along putting them to sleep on the large pile of dancers’ coats.